To Anal or Not..

Question: My husband really wants to have anal sex, but the first time we tried it hurt really bad, and now I am scared to do it. I really think he’ll cheat on me if I don’t give in to his request. Please help me. How can I become comfortable with anal sex, so that it will be enjoyable for both of us? Echo in Virginia.

Dear Echo in Virginia: First things first with anal sex, as any gay man could tell you. Anal sex is not to be attempted without first meeting the necessary requirements that can make it a pleasing experience. You could try heading to your nearest erotica store and purchase those items that possibly would enhance your bedroom forays. And those items include a butt plug and lubricants. Butt plugs, of course, come in all shapes and sizes. Newcomers are wise to start modestly and advance from there, if necessary. Buy your butt plug and become familiar with it. In this manner, you are able to control the situation, unlike how it sometimes can be with an overexcited husband.

You can insert the lubricated butt plug slowly while giving yourself all the time necessary to accommodate the intrusion. You eventually can learn to accommodate a butt plug easily and then, of course, graduate to your husband. Learn to wear the butt plug for extended periods and soon your husband’s request to have anal sex won’t be so daunting. In fact, some men and women find great pleasure in anal sex but only with training.

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