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		<description><![CDATA[Questions About the Penis
What&#8217;s the average size of the penis? What are the extremes? 
According to specialists, the average is 15cm and 90% are between
13 and 18cm.
The records for a fully functional penis are 1.5cm and 30cm.
Can penis size be increased?
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<p><strong>What&#8217;s the average size of the penis? What are the extremes? </strong></p>
<p>According to specialists, the average is 15cm and 90% are between<br />
13 and 18cm.</p>
<p>The records for a fully functional penis are 1.5cm and 30cm.</p>
<p>Can penis size be increased?</p>
<p>Yes. There are two surgical procedures to increase penis size the Bihari Procedure, and Fat Injection.</p>
<p>The Bihari Procedure consists of cutting the ligament that secures<br />
the base of the penis to the body. This gives between one-half and<br />
two inches of increased length to the penis; however, because the<br />
penis is no longer anchored to the body an erection no longer<br />
points â€˜up.â€™</p>
<p>Fat Injection is the process of removing fat from the backs of the<br />
thighs and injecting it into the body of the penis to make the<br />
penis thicker. Because the body rejects a significant portion of<br />
the injection this procedure may need to be repeated several<br />
times and each operation carries with it a severe risk of<br />
infection.</p>
<p>What is circumcision and why is it done?</p>
<p>Male circumcision is the surgical removal of the foreskin from the<br />
penis. When performed in a hospital, it is usually done shortly<br />
after birth by a doctor or midwife. Circumcisions are also given<br />
to Jewish boys by a mohel in a ceremony eight days after birth.</p>
<p>Some Islamic boys are circumcised when they are older, around age 12.<br />
The majority of American boys are circumcised.</p>
<p>Common reasons for circumcision include: better hygiene, â€œnormalâ€ or<br />
â€œbetterâ€ appearance, and â€œhis penis should look like his fatherâ€™s.â€</p>
<p>Common reasons against circumcision include: it is no longer<br />
necessary for hygienic reasons; it is a painful, barbaric practice;<br />
possibility of infection or surgical error; â€œnormalâ€ or â€œbetterâ€<br />
appearance; â€œhis penis should look like his fatherâ€™s.â€; and â€œgreater<br />
sensitivity of uncircumcised penis.â€</p>
<p>Hope this clears some mysteries for you.</p>
<p>Thanks for reading,</p>
<p>Lorenzo Martini</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[ How women&#8217;s orgasm enhancer work
Women have finally gotten their fair due in the category of all-natural sexual arousal and pleasure enhancers. Currently, there are dozens of such products on the market for men (not to mention several prescription meds that cater only to men), but only very recently have women&#8217;s products moved into consumer [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1 align="center"> How women&#8217;s orgasm enhancer work</h1>
<p>Women have finally gotten their fair due in the category of all-natural sexual arousal and pleasure enhancers. Currently, there are dozens of such products on the market for men (not to mention several prescription meds that cater only to men), but only very recently have women&#8217;s products moved into consumer focus. It&#8217;s a booming segment of the natural supplement market that&#8217;s more popular than ever.</p>
<p>However, the use of herbs and nutrients to enhance women&#8217;s sex drives and pleasure is nothing new. For many years, folk medicine and naturopathic healing have had a variety of natural and botanical ingredients in their arsenal of tools to combat women&#8217;s flagging sexuality due to fatigue, stress, dietary deficiency, aging, hormonal changes or emotional upset. What&#8217;s new now is the availability of specialized, pre-calibrated formulas in new standardized dosages using many of these time-honored ingredients.</p>
<p>The great news is that the formulas work &#8212; so well that women are buying them in record numbers and celebrating the results. The bad news? That the natural supplement market is easily infiltrated by fakes and poseurs, products that do nothing but cost as much as the real thing.</p>
<p>The wise consumer should first gain an understanding of how these products work, and what goes into a quality supplement, then make an informed choice to enjoy the best results.</p>
<p>What you&#8217;re looking for is a non-prescription, balanced formula that can be taken as a daily supplement without side effects or interference with birth control or other medications you might be taking. The specific formulation varies by manufacturer, however, all formulas worth purchasing are created in a cGMP pharmaceutical-grade facility, of top-quality ingredients. Here&#8217;s what else to look for: The ingredients in a good supplement individually will work to promote better blood flow and increased muscular relaxation, plus act on hormones for increased, more energetic sexual response. In addition, the hormone-balancing factors in the formula may combat the negative effects of menopause, such as night sweats and hot flashes, and may even balance mood and attitude before or during menopause. Taken together, in a blend that is thoughtfully created and precisely calibrated, the effects on the overall female reproductive system are overwhelmingly positive &#8212; from a healthier, more satisfying sex life to natural fertility.</p>
<p>With all the choices out there, it takes a diligent researcher to find out which are the effective formulas. One that meets all the critieria above is <a href="http://www.provestra.com/clicks/clickthrough.html?a=fitpills&#038;b=1592" target="_blank">Provestraâ„¢</a>, which in addition to being an effective and very popular orgasm enhancer for women, is also provided by one of the top legitimate companies in sexual health improvement for men and women. Here&#8217;s a partial list of <a href="http://www.provestra.com/clicks/clickthrough.html?a=fitpills&#038;b=1592" target="_blank">Provestraâ„¢</a>&#8217;s ingredients, and a description of how each works specifically on the female reproductive system:</p>
<p><strong>Maca</strong> - legendary South American herb with centuries-old reputation for increasing orgasms</p>
<p>    <strong>Red raspberry leaf</strong> - a female tonic, uterine contraction regulator, pregnancy herb</p>
<p>  <strong>Red clover</strong> - a blood cleanser and nutritive, positive effects on hormonal systems regulating pregnancy and lactation</p>
<p>  <strong>Cayenne pepper</strong> - a stimulant that equalizes circulation and strengthens the heart</p>
<p>  <strong>Licorice root</strong> - a botanical that strengthens and tonifies the adrenal glands and enhances hormonal function</p>
<p>  <strong>Bayberry fruit</strong> - natural ingredient that increases blood flow and capillary dilation in the mucus membranes of the vagina to enhance lubrication</p>
<p>  <strong>Damiana leaf </strong>- a centuries-old remedy used as an aphrodisiac for its ability to stimulate genitals</p>
<p>  <strong>Valerian root </strong>- a time-honored remedy that reduces tension and emotional stress, aids in a restful sleep, and eases menstrual cramps</p>
<p>  <strong>Ginger root</strong> - a total system stimulant that enhances the action of other herbs</p>
<p>  <strong>Black cohosh root</strong> - a favorite of midwives that acts on the uterine and vaginal ability to contract, balances hormones and has a mild sedative effect</p>
<p> Notice that the blend described above goes to work on the libido from multiple fronts: circulatory, hormonal, stress reduction, female-specific tonification and overall effects on the genitals. Other formulas may contain amino acids, vitamins, enzymes or various vegetable extracts. Though many of these ingredients are available individually from health food stores or herbal pharmacies, the prevailing wisdom today points to the superiority of formulas like this, that are pre-calibrated and blended to take the guesswork out of herbal extracts &#8212; not to mention the more economical approach of buying a complete tablet as opposed to a bewildering array of pills or tinctures that must be measured, mixed or calculated each day.</p>
<p> Results vary for individual women, but most report positive effects after only about a week or two on the supplement. Unlike prescription meds, these natural supplements have no side effects and can be obtained without a prescription or costly doctor&#8217;s office visit. Because of their safety and efficacy, natural supplements are the number one choice today among women seeking to improve their libido and sexual pleasure.</p>
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		<title>Benefits of a wet female orgasm</title>
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Orgasm is the crowning of a successful and highly pleasurable session of sex. It puts a smile on the lips of satisfied women and makes men walk with a swagger. Itâ€™s the biggest little thing in the world and the crucial detail and the end of a delightful exertion. Life [...]]]></description>
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<p>Orgasm is the crowning of a successful and highly pleasurable session of sex. It puts a smile on the lips of satisfied women and makes men walk with a swagger. Itâ€™s the biggest little thing in the world and the crucial detail and the end of a delightful exertion. Life without orgasms is simply not possible.</p>
<p>But orgasm is not limited in scope to making one (or two) people feel good for five or ten minutes before falling asleep. Science has shown that frequent sex and orgasms are very important to the general well-being and health of every person. The more frequent the <a href="http://www.provestra.com/clicks/clickthrough.html?a=fitpills&#038;b=1627">orgasm</a>, the better off that person is going to be on both the physical and psychological planes.</p>
<p>Everyday life is bound to result in some nervous tensions for most people as the troubles of jobs and relationships take their toll on the mental balance. Sex and orgasms are a chance for these tensions to join the psychological and physical build-up and release. Thus, the mind uses orgasm to flush the tensions out of the system and replace them with the delicious relaxation of that comes with pleasure.<br />
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The best thing to do after disentangling from the tender embrace is, of course, to slide into sleep. The combined exertion of sex and relaxation brought by orgasm is the perfect replacement for any sleeping pill. Instead of reaching out for the bottle of pills, you would be better off reaching out for the man lying in bed next to you or for your favorite sex toy. Itâ€™s a perfectly natural solution that we heartily recommend.</p>
<p>Donâ€™t let headaches get in the way. What men donâ€™t realize is that headaches are many times a womanâ€™s way of saying â€œYou have to try harderâ€. The pleasure brought by orgasm is the result of a discharge of endorphins into the brain. No headache can survive the attack of pleasure flooding the brain and the calming effect it has.</p>
<p>Aside from releasing endorphins into the brain sexual stimulation also activates the production of phenethylamine, an amphetamine secreted by the body which is thought to play a role in the regulation of appetite. Of course, sex is not meant to replace dieting, but it seems to go some way toward helping you rein in those food cravings and it does burn some calories. In fact, sex burns a bit more calories per minute than tennis.</p>
<p>The number of scientific studies showing that frequent wet orgasms are good for oneâ€™s health is testimony to the important role played by a successful sex life in the physical and mental health of all men and women. Aside from the fact that increased heart rate and heavy breathing keep the circulatory system in shape and make oxygen circulate through the body, sex has other benefits.<br />
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A study published in the medical field in 1976 showed that failure to reach orgasm has a negative impact on the cardiovascular health of women. A specialist in endocrinology, found that women who have sex at least once a week are more likely to have normal menstrual cycles and higher levels of estrogen in their blood. Healthy levels of estrogen help keep the cardiovascular system in shape, fight cholesterol and keep the skin supple.</p>
<p>This is why we recommend the <a href="http://track.lativio.com/hit.php?w=101609&#038;p=2&#038;s=10">Ultimate Sex Guide</a>. This one-stop guide to more pleasure than ever before is packed with new positions, tricks and tips that will banish boredom and routine from your relationship. Bring back the spark and make it turn into a flame with the help of new information. More pleasure means a healthier life for you and your partner.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Question: My husband really wants to have anal sex, but the first time we tried it hurt really bad, and now I am scared to do it. I really think he&#8217;ll cheat on me if I don&#8217;t give in to his request. Please help me. How can I become comfortable with anal sex, so that it will be enjoyable for both of us? Echo in Virginia.</strong></p>
<p>Dear Echo in Virginia: First things first with anal sex, as any gay man could tell you. Anal sex is not to be attempted without first meeting the necessary requirements that can make it a pleasing experience. You could try heading to your nearest erotica store and purchase those items that possibly would enhance your bedroom forays. And those items include a butt plug and lubricants. Butt plugs, of course, come in all shapes and sizes. Newcomers are wise to start modestly and advance from there, if necessary. Buy your butt plug and become familiar with it. In this manner, you are able to control the situation, unlike how it sometimes can be with an overexcited husband. </p>
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<p>You can insert the <a href="http://www.libida.com/storepage/sex_toys/anal_toys?view=toys&#038;ref=drlu">lubricated butt plug</a> slowly while giving yourself all the time necessary to accommodate the intrusion. You eventually can learn to accommodate a butt plug easily and then, of course, graduate to your husband. Learn to wear the butt plug for extended periods and soon your husbandâ€™s request to have anal sex wonâ€™t be so daunting. In fact, some men and women find great pleasure in anal sex but only with training.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[How to get boost in bedroom?
While not everyone is eager to spend money and time next a established penis swelling agenda, many people are still paying attention in receiving a increase for their bedroom sessions. This piece of writing will provide particulars on a pair of natural habits of civilizing your bedroom presentation by herbal [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>How to get boost in bedroom?</strong></p>
<p>While not everyone is eager to spend money and time next a established penis swelling agenda, many people are still paying attention in receiving a increase for their bedroom sessions. This piece of writing will provide particulars on a pair of natural habits of civilizing your bedroom presentation by herbal crop. </p>
<p>One of the best-known herbal crop that can help in such luggage is Ginseng. This plant is a foundation stone of the Chinese customary drug and also saw wide use in the by Inhabitant Americans over many centuries, though this fact is less recognized. Ginseng is a extremely award-winning adaptogen, which is the name known to crop that run to add to the bodyâ€™s confrontation to pressure with no demanding itâ€™s energy. The plant is also second-hand as a vasodilator and refreshment and the ancestry recognized as Red Ginseng are second-hand to rouse the sexual functions. </p>
<p>One more good refreshment is the take out from Kola mad. The substance is second-hand mostly as intelligence food and in order to refill exhausted energy treasury. Though, it can also keep you leaving through the night You could pair this with B multifaceted, which is recognized to add to energy and protein metabolism, hormone purpose, flow, fit anxiety, and stamina.</p>
<p>Damiana is a plant that has been second-hand in the Joint States as aphrodisiac and inoculation of sexual action since the 19th century. Damiana is an outstanding medicine for intensification the anxious and hormonal system. It has a history of use during despair and nervousness, chiefly when prejudiced by sex-related factors. </p>
<p>A word of care: stay absent from herbal crop containing yohimbe or ephedra. These two substances are recognized to be strong stimulants, but they also get in the way with the cardiovascular system. Low doses of yohimbe or ephedra are improbable to harm you if you are young and fit, but it is much safer to desist from by these substances altogether.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[What to do if you have penis below 5 inches
Less than 5 inches? Now thatâ€™s a problem. Fortunately there are solutions to this one. The first thing to do is to put embarrassment aside and learn the simple ways in which you can offset this drawback. Itâ€™s true that there is no way you can [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What to do if you have penis below 5 inches</p>
<p>Less than 5 inches? Now thatâ€™s a problem. Fortunately there are solutions to this one. The first thing to do is to put embarrassment aside and learn the simple ways in which you can offset this drawback. Itâ€™s true that there is no way you can make up on the physical side, but there are tricks that can help you hide the real size. And you can also win through sheer confidence and audacity. </p>
<p>If you have a small penis buried in the pubic hair, you can start by shaving or trimming. At this size you want every inch of your penis to show. So get rid of that hair. Nowadays shaving is no longer seen as strange and the mainstream is much more open to such trends. </p>
<p>Another effective trick is to take a hot shower or bath before sex. The hot water will help increase the blood flow and expand the â€œcorpora cavernosaâ€ in your penis. This means that your penis will be able to hold more blood than usual for a certain amount of time. More blood means more inches. </p>
<p>And last of all, you can shed some weight. If your penis is hard to find in the pad of fat located at its base or if it barely shows its head from under your belly then itâ€™s high time you lose some weight. Losing weight will not only make your penis more visible, but it will also give more stamina in sex sessions and keep your heart in better shape. </p>
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		<title>Not Enough Affection?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[My husband often complains that I do not show him enough affection, such as touching, initiating sex, etc. What can I do to satisfy him more? I am a little shy and have trouble expressing my feelings to him at times?  Raleigh, N.C.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><strong>My husband often complains that I do not show him enough affection, such as touching, initiating sex, etc. What can I do to satisfy him more? I am a little shy and have trouble expressing my feelings to him at times?  Raleigh, N.C.</strong></em></p>
<p>Dear Shy in Raleigh:</p>
<p>There is no crying in baseball, and there is no being shy in a marriage. This is not junior high school. This is the big-time, full-blow adulthood.</p>
<p>Shy? What does shy have to do with a marriage?</p>
<p>Has your husband not seen you at your worst, either when you have been under the weather with the worst flu imaginable or when you have just gotten out of bed after a hard night of partying? Hasnâ€™t your husband seen you butt naked?</p>
<p>Here is my theory on those who are shy, and you are permitted to discount it if you like, Shy in Raleigh.</p>
<p>There comes a time in every marriage &#8212; usually sooner than later &#8212; when those who, indeed, were shy at one time lose their inhibitions around the one they love. That is the benefit of marriage and being in love.</p>
<p>You know longer have to be shy. You can let it rip. And you certainly have nothing to hide from your husband, and I mean that literally, because, honey, your husband has made a mental notation of every inch of your body by now and committed it to memory.</p>
<p>So if you insist on being shy, Shy in Raleigh, you are only fooling yourself, which your husband undoubtedly has tried to express to you.</p>
<p>Here is a suggestion, Shy in Raleigh: Next time your husband is out and you are at home with time to kill, grab a bottle of wine and have a glass or two to loosen up. Then slip into your most provocative clothes, freshen up your makeup, spray on a little perfume and wait for the big guy to return home.</p>
<p>And as soon as he hits the door step, I would allow my inner tigress to be released. He is your husband. He is no stranger. And it is OK to be a tigress with your husband. It is not OK to be shy with him. Now get to it, Shy in Raleigh.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Dr. Love: Are John and me going to be together forever?
Christina, Desmet, Idaho
Dear Christina: I hope you and John are going to be together forever. That is the purpose of your union, after all. Yours is a noble but arduous pursuit. Eternal bliss is a tricky proposition, and even the best partnerships reach soul-searching [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Dear Dr. Love: Are John and me going to be together forever?<br />
Christina, Desmet, Idaho</strong></p>
<p><strong>Dear Christina:</strong> I hope you and John are going to be together forever. That is the purpose of your union, after all. Yours is a noble but arduous pursuit. Eternal bliss is a tricky proposition, and even the best partnerships reach soul-searching points in life. Those are the trials that can bring even more joy to a couple. Being committed to another is hard work, and that is sometimes lost because of the initial displays of fireworks that go with courtships. Too many couples come to think a relationship is in trouble the moment the fireworks have dissipated. That is too bad, for there are deeper loves than the giddy beginnings fueled in part by raging hormones. So are you and John forever? I have no crystal ball. I read no palms. I cannot look into the minds of you and John and gauge where you are. I can say that asking the question indicates a healthy concern. </p>
<p>That tells me you want this to work, and you are prepared to do everything in your power to be eternally joined with John. And that is a good thing, because Dr. Love can tell you that the grass is rarely greener on the other side, to borrow an old but appropriate line. Too many couples find that out the hard way, and the emotional and financial costs are steep. So, Christina, I cannot say with certainty that you and John are forever, because there are too many unknown variables over the lifespan of two adults. </p>
<p>But I commend you on your motivation, for motivation plays no small role in making a partnership work, and I wish you and John the best.</p>
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		<title>S&#038;M Games or Not?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Nov 2005 21:43:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Dr. Love: I see a dominatrix about once a week, and sometimes the sessions become very intense. I draw the line at breath play, which, of course, is putting a strain on the relationship. I donâ€™t pay for this service. If I were paying for it, obviously, I would have more control over the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Dear Dr. Love: I see a dominatrix about once a week, and sometimes the sessions become very intense. I draw the line at breath play, which, of course, is putting a strain on the relationship. I donâ€™t pay for this service. If I were paying for it, obviously, I would have more control over the situation. The dominatrix likes to remind me of that fact on occasion. Should I just go for it or what?</strong></p>
<p><strong>Sissy in Memphis</strong></p>
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<p>Dear Sissy: Breath play in the S&#038;M world is not for the faint of heart or the novice, that is for sure. It takes considerable experience and trust on the part of both parties. If you have zero interest in breath play, I say look elsewhere, even if it means spending a few dollars. Otherwise, there will be a tipping point between you and your dominatrix, rest assured. She will find others to indulge this whim of hers, if she hasnâ€™t already. </p>
<p>You make no mention of your progression in the dom/sub practice. If your desire to be a sub has intensified over the years &#8212; and that is usually how it works &#8212; then take baby steps with breath play. You may grow to like it, as you no doubt have grown to like other aspects of the S&#038;M world. I suspect you have incorporated certain S&#038;M activities into your play that you did not originally do. Breath play could be one of those things. Or not. </p>
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		<title>Stall Marriage Sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Sep 2005 10:58:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Dr. Love: We are a married couple, late 20â€™s, whose sex lives are dwindling to nothing. We used to go at it like rabbits a few years ago, and now we are lucky if we work up the passion once every couple of weeks. I love my husband to death, but I donâ€™t see [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Dear Dr. Love: We are a married couple, late 20â€™s, whose sex lives are dwindling to nothing. We used to go at it like rabbits a few years ago, and now we are lucky if we work up the passion once every couple of weeks. I love my husband to death, but I donâ€™t see this working in the long term. We have talked about it, of course, and we both agree that something needs to be done. We just are not sure what. Any ideas?</strong></p>
<p>Feeling like a Desperate Housewife in New Orleans</p>
<p>Dear Desperate: I have a zillion ideas, none of which may be applicable to your marriage. Your lament, however, is as old as the hills. I could suggest a plethora of fantasies, role-playing exercises and the like. Yet none of them necessarily would serve as a triggering mechanism for you and your husband. Sex is a funny business. What I would say is both of you are ready to explore. You have completed the vanilla phase of the relationship, and now you either need new partners or new shared experiences. Whatever it might be, it starts with open dialogue, even if both of you have to drag it out of each other. Think of it this way: If Teri Hatcher dropped into your living room and made a move on your husband, he probably would spring to attention in a second. Okay, that is not going to happen. </p>
<p>But that would be a good place to begin the conversation. Start with an absurd fantasy and evolve to more obtainable ones. You have no idea what is lurking inside your husbandâ€™s head. Whatever it is, it is worth discovering sooner rather than later, even if it is something you find abhorrent. You just know you canâ€™t stay on the present path. That path leads to failure. Now you and your husband may be doomed to fail as it is. But why waste anymore time than necessary on failure? Men sometimes are simple souls. A good blow job can change their sexual dynamic in an instant. You become his hopeless cock-sucker, and the next thing you know, he is ready to make you his personal slut, and the fireworks are blasting above your home.</p>
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